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Mahesh P Deshmukh
- 25 Year Expirience In Mechanical Project
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Many time I have realize that ldquohappiness is not god giftrdquo. My children always like to go out with my wife, I say ldquoMy children are matured enough to take care of their motherrdquo and make myself happy. My daughter brought nice cell phone for her mother after her first salary. I say, my daughter tried her best to keep happy mom happy and feel proud about my daughter and feel myself happy. She brought nice LCD TV for her mother. I feel proud of my daughter who remembers her mother all the time. I never feel envy. My son is studying and his aunty gifted him nice cell phone. He passes on his cell phone to her mother. My wife thinks that she always gets secondhand things and made my son unhappy. I am happy because my son thought of giving something as a token of remembrance of his mother. When I get used cloths of my son, I feel happy and proud. I then bring nice clothes for him. I never feel bad or envy when he gets new things. Some people are born and brought up as unhappy. I donrsquot understand what wrong in being happy. ldquoMaturity is gift of god and not happinessrdquo. Try to understand the feeling of person who is giving gift to you and do not try to evaluate the value or do not compare with others. You are more likely to lose friends and relatives by leaving unhappy. At the end of life you are likely to get ignored by surrounding people and may have to face loneliness in life. Happiness comes in your life at free of cost you are just required to understand it in sporting sprite. Many saints, great people, philosopher etc tell us all the time about the importance of happiness. My close friend who suffered from hart deices always use to laugh at me when I discuss/shared my personal problem with him. I was really surprised with his attitude towards life. In his last days before his death he shared secrete of his happiness. He said, ldquoI donrsquot want to carry my memory in my next journey Life after deathrdquo. Whatever has happened with me is destiny and whoever troubled be in this life will have same experience which I had in past. No regrets and no attachment with anyone. I could understand after his death. Due to his health he lost his job and was bedridden for last few years. I use to meet him almost every evening and tried to share light movement of the day. He had not met his daughter during his last 5/6 years as his life as his wife was fighting case for maintenances and divorce. I use to feel bad. He asked me favor before his death to purchase his ldquoBajaj Scooterrdquo as he was not having money for this medicine. I immediately gave him Rs. 10,000/- and he gave me transfer papers of the vehicle. I still hold that scooter with me. The cost of that scooter is just 2000 but rest 8000 I paid as cost of learning happiness from him. When he died the, his face was looking happy and no regrets for misshapes in life. Someone may think worst deal but I feel worth deal I still feel that he is with mehellip.. A real life experience which is never thought in school / collage helliphellip
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